net: protect NAPI config fields with netdev_lock()

Protect the following members of netdev and napi by netdev_lock:
 - defer_hard_irqs,
 - gro_flush_timeout,
 - irq_suspend_timeout.

The first two are written via sysfs (which this patch switches
to new lock), and netdev genl which holds both netdev and rtnl locks.

irq_suspend_timeout is only written by netdev genl.

Reviewed-by: Joe Damato <jdamato@fastly.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250115035319.559603-11-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>