net: protect napi->irq with netdev_lock()

Take netdev_lock() in netif_napi_set_irq(). All NAPI "control fields"
are now protected by that lock (most of the other ones are set during
napi add/del). The napi_hash_node is fully protected by the hash
spin lock, but close enough for the kdoc...

Reviewed-by: Joe Damato <jdamato@fastly.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250115035319.559603-10-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>