iomap: add public helpers for uptodate state manipulation

Add a new iomap_start_folio_write helper to abstract away the
write_bytes_pending handling, and export it and the existing
iomap_finish_folio_write for non-iomap writeback in fuse.

Signed-off-by: Joanne Koong <joannelkoong@gmail.com>
[hch: split from a larger patch]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/20250710133343.399917-7-hch@lst.de


Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>