net: protect threaded status of NAPI with netdev_lock()

Now that NAPI instances can't come and go without holding
netdev->lock we can trivially switch from rtnl_lock() to
netdev_lock() for setting netdev->threaded via sysfs.

Note that since we do not lock netdev_lock around sysfs
calls in the core we don't have to "trylock" like we do
with rtnl_lock.

Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250115035319.559603-9-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>