io_uring: include dying ring in task_work "should cancel" state

When running task_work for an exiting task, rather than perform the
issue retry attempt, the task_work is canceled. However, this isn't
done for a ring that has been closed. This can lead to requests being
successfully completed post the ring being closed, which is somewhat
confusing and surprising to an application.

Rather than just check the task exit state, also include the ring
ref state in deciding whether or not to terminate a given request when
run from task_work.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # 6.1+
Link: https://github.com/axboe/liburing/discussions/1459


Reported-by: Benedek Thaler <thaler@thaler.hu>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>