runtime: check that defer/go frames are empty

With GOEXPERIMENT=regabidefer, these frames should always be empty.
Check that.

For #40724.

Change-Id: Id8e418a9e06b4f94543cb16b868a7e10e013c2d9
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/306009


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