reflect: allocate hiter as part of MapIter

This reduces the number of allocations per
reflect map iteration from two to one.

For #46293

Change-Id: Ibcff5f42fc512e637b6e460bad4518e7ac83d4c3
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/321889


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