cmd/compile: simplify OPTRLIT handling

Previously, we would recognize &(T{...}) expressions during type
checking, rewrite them into (*T){...}, and then do a lot of extra work
to make sure the user doesn't write (*T){...} themselves and
resynthesizing the OPTRLIT later on.

This CL simply handles &T{...} directly in the straight forward
manner, by changing OADDR directly to OPTRLIT when appropriate.

While here, match go/types's invalid composite literal type error
message.

Passes toolstash-check.

Change-Id: I902b14c7e2cd9fa93e6915dd58272d2352ba38f8
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/197120


Run-TryBot: Matthew Dempsky <mdempsky@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Robert Griesemer <gri@golang.org>