ublk: simplify aborting request

Now ublk_abort_queue() is run exclusively with ublk_queue_rq() and the
ubq_daemon task, so simplify aborting request:

- set UBLK_IO_FLAG_ABORTED in ublk_abort_queue() just for aborting
this request

- abort request in ublk_queue_rq() if ubq->canceling is set

Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231009093324.957829-8-ming.lei@redhat.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>