drm/i915/display: include xe_bo.h, gem_object_types etc. where needed

Include what you use. The dependencies on the headers, and what they
include, is a bit convoluted. Add xe compat gem/gem_object_types.h. Fix
all the places needed.

Reviewed-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>
Acked-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jani Nikula <jani.nikula@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/e9ca3d6127ea22f252d9dbf30cfde99e37538c99.1717004739.git.jani.nikula@intel.com