scsi: add support for user-meta interface

Add support for sending user-meta buffer. Set tags to be checked
using flags specified by user/block-layer.
With this change, BIP_CTRL_NOCHECK becomes unused. Remove it.

Signed-off-by: Anuj Gupta <anuj20.g@samsung.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20241128112240.8867-10-anuj20.g@samsung.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>