nvmet: compare mqes and sqsize only for IO SQ

According to the NVMe Spec:
"
MQES: This field indicates the maximum individual queue size that the
controller supports. For NVMe over PCIe implementations, this value
applies to the I/O Submission Queues and I/O Completion Queues that the
host creates. For NVMe over Fabrics implementations, this value applies
to only the I/O Submission Queues that the host creates.
"

Align the target code to compare mqes and sqsize as mentioned in the
NVMe Spec.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Max Gurtovoy <mgurtovoy@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>