drm/xe: Clean up VM / exec queue file lock usage.

Both the VM / exec queue file lock protect the lookup and reference to
the object, nothing more. These locks are not intended anything else
underneath them. XA have their own locking too, so no need to take the
VM / exec queue file lock aside from when doing a lookup and reference
get.

Add some kernel doc to make this clear and cleanup a few typos too.

Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240921011712.2681510-1-matthew.brost@intel.com