bpf: Move bpf map owner out of common struct

Given this is only relevant for BPF tail call maps, it is adding up space
and penalizing other map types. We also need to extend this with further
objects to track / compare to. Therefore, lets move this out into a separate
structure and dynamically allocate it only for BPF tail call maps.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250730234733.530041-2-daniel@iogearbox.net


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>