smb: server: use disable_work_sync in transport_rdma.c

This makes it safer during the disconnect and avoids
requeueing.

It's ok to call disable_work[_sync]() more than once.

Cc: Namjae Jeon <linkinjeon@kernel.org>
Cc: Steve French <smfrench@gmail.com>
Cc: Tom Talpey <tom@talpey.com>
Cc: linux-cifs@vger.kernel.org
Cc: samba-technical@lists.samba.org
Fixes: 0626e664 ("cifsd: add server handler for central processing and tranport layers")
Signed-off-by: Stefan Metzmacher <metze@samba.org>
Acked-by: Namjae Jeon <linkinjeon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Steve French <stfrench@microsoft.com>