xfs: punch delalloc extents from the COW fork for COW writes

When ->iomap_end is called on a short write to the COW fork it needs to
punch stale delalloc data from the COW fork and not the data fork.

Ensure that IOMAP_F_NEW is set for new COW fork allocations in
xfs_buffered_write_iomap_begin, and then use the IOMAP_F_SHARED flag
in xfs_buffered_write_delalloc_punch to decide which fork to punch.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Carlos Maiolino <cem@kernel.org>