SUNRPC/xprtrdma: Fix reconnection locking

[ Upstream commit f99fa508 ]

The xprtrdma client code currently relies on the task that initiated the
connect to hold the XPRT_LOCK for the duration of the connection
attempt. If the task is woken early, due to some other event, then that
lock could get released early.
Avoid races by using the same mechanism that the socket code uses of
transferring lock ownership to the RDMA connect worker itself. That
frees us to call rpcrdma_xprt_disconnect() directly since we're now
guaranteed exclusion w.r.t. other callers.

Fixes: 4cf44be6 ("xprtrdma: Fix recursion into rpcrdma_xprt_disconnect()")
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>