net/mlx5: fs, separate action and destination into distinct struct

Introduce a dedicated structure to encapsulate flow context, actions,
destination count, and modification mask. This refactoring lays the
groundwork for forthcoming patches that will integrate the NO APPEND
software logic. Future modifications should focus solely on these
specific fields.

Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20240911201757.1505453-8-saeed@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>