drm/i915/dp: Disable the AUX DPCD probe quirk if it's not required

Reading DPCD registers has side-effects and some of these can cause a
problem for instance during link training. Based on this it's better to
avoid the probing quirk done before each DPCD register read, limiting
this to the monitor which requires it. The only known problematic
monitor is an external SST sink, so keep the quirk disabled always for
eDP and MST sinks. Reenable the quirk after a hotplug event and after
resuming from a power state without hotplug support, until the
subsequent EDID based detection.

v2: Add a helper for determining the need/setting the probing. (Jani)

Cc: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Jani Nikula <jani.nikula@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Mika Kahola <mika.kahola@intel.com>
Acked-by: Jani Nikula <jani.nikula@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250609125556.109538-2-imre.deak@intel.com