futex: abstract out a __futex_wake_mark() helper

Move the unqueue and lock_ptr clear into a helper that futex_wake_mark()
calls. Add it to the public functions as well, in preparation for using
it outside the core futex code.

Suggested-by: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Acked-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>