x86/bugs: Restructure retbleed mitigation

Restructure retbleed mitigation to use select/update/apply functions to create
consistent vulnerability handling.  The retbleed_update_mitigation()
simplifies the dependency between spectre_v2 and retbleed.

The command line options now directly select a preferred mitigation
which simplifies the logic.

Signed-off-by: David Kaplan <david.kaplan@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Borislav Petkov (AMD) <bp@alien8.de>
Reviewed-by: Josh Poimboeuf <jpoimboe@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/20250418161721.1855190-11-david.kaplan@amd.com