x86/bugs: Restructure spectre_v2_user mitigation

Restructure spectre_v2_user to use select/update/apply functions to
create consistent vulnerability handling.

The IBPB/STIBP choices are first decided based on the spectre_v2_user
command line but can be modified by the spectre_v2 command line option
as well.

Signed-off-by: David Kaplan <david.kaplan@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Borislav Petkov (AMD) <bp@alien8.de>
Reviewed-by: Josh Poimboeuf <jpoimboe@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/20250418161721.1855190-12-david.kaplan@amd.com