NFSv4: Ask for a delegation or an open stateid in OPEN

Turn on the optimisation to allow the client to request that the server
not return the open stateid when it returns a delegation.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Lance Shelton <lance.shelton@hammerspace.com>
Reviewed-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>