devlink: Allow taking device lock in pre_doit operations

Introduce a new private flag ('DEVLINK_NL_FLAG_NEED_DEV_LOCK') to allow
netlink commands to specify that they need to acquire the device lock in
their pre_doit operation and release it in their post_doit operation.

The reload command will use this flag in the subsequent patch.

No functional changes intended.

Signed-off-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>