netdev: don't hold rtnl_lock over nl queue info get when possible

Netdev queue dump accesses: NAPI, memory providers, XSk pointers.
All three are "ops protected" now, switch to the op compat locking.
rtnl lock does not have to be taken for "ops locked" devices.

Reviewed-by: Joe Damato <jdamato@fastly.com>
Acked-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@fomichev.me>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250408195956.412733-5-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>