wifi: cfg80211: validate MLO connections better

When going into an MLO connection, validate that the link IDs
match what userspace indicated, and that the AP MLD addresses
and capabilities are all matching between the links.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Gregory Greenman <gregory.greenman@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Miri Korenblit <miriam.rachel.korenblit@intel.com>
Link: https://msgid.link/20240102213313.ff83c034cb9a.I9962db0bfa8c73b37b8d5b59a3fad7f02f2129ae@changeid


[roll in extra fix from Miri to actually check the return value]
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>