net: flush_backlog() small changes

Add READ_ONCE() around reads of skb->dev->reg_state, because
this field can be changed from other threads/cpus.

Instead of calling dev_kfree_skb_irq() and kfree_skb()
while interrupts are masked and locks held,
use a temporary list and use __skb_queue_purge_reason()

Use SKB_DROP_REASON_DEV_READY drop reason to better
describe why these skbs are dropped.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250204144825.316785-1-edumazet@google.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>