wifi: mac80211: fix WARN_ON for monitor mode on some devices

On devices without WANT_MONITOR_VIF (and probably without
channel context support) we get a WARN_ON for changing the
per-link setting of a monitor interface.

Since we already skip AP_VLAN interfaces and MONITOR with
WANT_MONITOR_VIF and/or NO_VIRTUAL_MONITOR should update
the settings, catch this in the link change code instead
of the warning.

Reported-by: Martin Kaistra <martin.kaistra@linutronix.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/a9de62a0-28f1-4981-84df-253489da74ed@linutronix.de/


Fixes: c4382d5c ("wifi: mac80211: update the right link for tx power")
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>