rust: drm: gem: Add GEM object abstraction

DRM GEM is the DRM memory management subsystem used by most modern
drivers; add a Rust abstraction for DRM GEM.

This includes the BaseObject trait, which contains operations shared by
all GEM object classes.

Signed-off-by: Asahi Lina <lina@asahilina.net>
Reviewed-by: Alyssa Rosenzweig <alyssa@rosenzweig.io>
Reviewed-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250410235546.43736-8-dakr@kernel.org
[ Rework of GEM object abstractions
    * switch to the Opaque<T> type
    * fix (mutable) references to struct drm_gem_object (which in this
      context is UB)
    * drop all custom reference types in favor of AlwaysRefCounted
    * bunch of minor changes and simplifications (e.g. IntoGEMObject
      trait)
    * write and fix safety and invariant comments
    * remove necessity for and convert 'as' casts
    * original source archive: https://archive.is/dD5SL



  - Danilo ]
[ Fix missing CONFIG_DRM guards in rust/helpers/drm.c. - Danilo ]
Signed-off-by: Danilo Krummrich <dakr@kernel.org>