iidc/ice/irdma: Update IDC to support multiple consumers

In preparation of supporting more than a single core PCI driver
for RDMA, move ice specific structs like qset_params, qos_info
and qos_params from iidc_rdma.h to iidc_rdma_ice.h.

Previously, the ice driver was just exporting its entire PF struct
to the auxiliary driver, but since each core driver will have its own
different PF struct, implement a universal struct that all core drivers
can provide to the auxiliary driver through the probe call.

Reviewed-by: Przemek Kitszel <przemyslaw.kitszel@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Ertman <david.m.ertman@intel.com>
Co-developed-by: Mustafa Ismail <mustafa.ismail@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mustafa Ismail <mustafa.ismail@intel.com>
Co-developed-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Co-developed-by: Tatyana Nikolova <tatyana.e.nikolova@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tatyana Nikolova <tatyana.e.nikolova@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>