xfs: parent pointer attribute creation

Add parent pointer attribute during xfs_create, and subroutines to
initialize attributes.  Note that the xfs_attr_intent object contains a
pointer to the caller's xfs_da_args object, so the latter must persist
until transaction commit.

Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Allison Henderson <allison.henderson@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
[djwong: shorten names, adjust to new format, set init_xattrs for parent
pointers]
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>