libbpf: Pull file-opening logic up to top-level functions

Move the filename arguments and file-descriptor handling from
init_output_elf() and linker_load_obj_file() and instead handle them
at the top-level in bpf_linker__new() and bpf_linker__add_file().

This will allow the inner functions to be shared with a new,
non-filename-based, API in the next commit.

Signed-off-by: Alastair Robertson <ajor@meta.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20241211164030.573042-2-ajor@meta.com