fuse: {io-uring} Prevent mount point hang on fuse-server termination

When the fuse-server terminates while the fuse-client or kernel
still has queued URING_CMDs, these commands retain references
to the struct file used by the fuse connection. This prevents
fuse_dev_release() from being invoked, resulting in a hung mount
point.

This patch addresses the issue by making queued URING_CMDs
cancelable, allowing fuse_dev_release() to proceed as expected
and preventing the mount point from hanging.

Signed-off-by: Bernd Schubert <bschubert@ddn.com>
Reviewed-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com> # io_uring
Reviewed-by: Luis Henriques <luis@igalia.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>