vhost: fail early when __vhost_add_used() fails

This patch fails vhost_add_used_n() early when __vhost_add_used()
fails to make sure used idx is not updated with stale used ring
information.

Reported-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20250714084755.11921-2-jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Lei Yang <leiyang@redhat.com>