btrfs: reduce size of struct tree_mod_elem

Several members are used for specific types of tree mod log operations so
they can be placed in a union in order to reduce the structure's size.

This reduces the structure size from 112 bytes to 88 bytes on x86_64,
so we can now use the kmalloc-96 slab instead of the kmalloc-128 slab.

Reviewed-by: Boris Burkov <boris@bur.io>
Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>