net: phy: improve phy_disable_eee_mode

If a mode is to be disabled, remove it from advertising_eee.
Disabling EEE modes shall be done before calling phy_start(),
warn if that's not the case.

Signed-off-by: Heiner Kallweit <hkallweit1@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Lunn <andrew@lunn.ch>
Reviewed-by: Russell King (Oracle) <rmk+kernel@armlinux.org.uk>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/92164896-38ff-4474-b98b-e83fc05b9509@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>