xfs: factor out a xfs_rt_check_size helper

Add a helper to check that the last block of a RT device is readable
to share the code between mount and growfs.  This also adds the mount
time overflow check to growfs and improves the error messages.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: "Darrick J. Wong" <djwong@kernel.org>