drm/xe: Ban a VM if rebind worker hits an error

We cannot recover a VM if a rebind worker hits an error, ban the VM if
happens to ensure we do not attempt to place this VM on the hardware
again.

A follow up will inform the user if this happens.

v2: Return -ECANCELED in exec VM closed or banned, check for closed or
banned within VM lock.
v3: Fix lockdep splat by looking engine outside of vm->lock
v4: Fix error path when engine lookup fails
v5: Add debug message in rebind worker on error, update comments wrt
locking, add xe_vm_close helper

Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>