drm/i915/psr: Add PSR pause/resume reference count

We have now seen this:

<4> [2120.434153] i915 0000:00:02.0: [drm] drm_WARN_ON(psr->paused)
<4> [2120.434196] WARNING: CPU: 3 PID: 4430 at drivers/gpu/drm/i915/display/intel_psr.c:2227 intel_psr_pause+0x16e/0x180 [i915]

Comment for drm_WARN_ON(display->drm, psr->paused) in intel_psr_pause says:

"If we ever hit this, we will need to add refcount to pause/resume"

This patch is implementing PSR pause/resume refcount.

v3: Incorporate changes missing from v2
v2: Add drm_warn for detecting possible unbalanced pause/resume

Signed-off-by: Jouni Högander <jouni.hogander@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Animesh Manna <animesh.manna@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250328080623.1183669-1-jouni.hogander@intel.com