UPSTREAM: sched/wait: Fix a kthread_park race with wait_woken()

kthread_park and wait_woken have a similar race that
kthread_stop and wait_woken used to have before it was fixed in
commit cb6538e7 ("sched/wait: Fix a kthread race with
wait_woken()"). Extend that fix to also cover kthread_park.

[jstultz: Made changes suggested by Peter to optimize
 memory loads]

Change-Id: Idd1381e297efb1f2493deedcc0fc0288f0027fef
Signed-off-by: Arve Hjønnevåg <arve@android.com>
Signed-off-by: John Stultz <jstultz@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Valentin Schneider <vschneid@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230602212350.535358-1-jstultz@google.com
(cherry picked from commit ef73d6a4)