xfs: require XFS_SB_FEAT_INCOMPAT_LOG_XATTRS for attr log intent item recovery

The XFS_SB_FEAT_INCOMPAT_LOG_XATTRS feature bit protects a filesystem
from old kernels that do not know how to recover extended attribute log
intent items.  Make this check mandatory instead of a debugging assert.

Fixes: fd920008 ("xfs: Set up infrastructure for log attribute replay")
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>