vdpa/mlx5: Consolidate all VQ modify to Ready to use resume_vq()

There are a few more places modifying the VQ to Ready directly. Let's
consolidate them into resume_vq().

The redundant warnings for resume_vq() errors can also be dropped.

There is one special case that needs to be handled for virtio-vdpa:
the initialized flag must be set to true earlier in setup_vq() so that
resume_vq() doesn't return early.

Reviewed-by: Cosmin Ratiu <cratiu@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dragos Tatulea <dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Message-Id: <20240626-stage-vdpa-vq-precreate-v2-18-560c491078df@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>