bcachefs: Subvolumes may now be renamed

Files within a subvolume cannot be renamed into another subvolume, but
subvolumes themselves were intended to be.

This implements subvolume renaming - we need to ensure that there's only
a single dirent that points to a subvolume key (not multiple versions in
different snapshots), and we need to ensure that dirent.d_parent_subol
and inode.bi_parent_subvol are updated.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>