rds: sysctl: rds_tcp_{rcv,snd}buf: avoid using current->nsproxy

As mentioned in a previous commit of this series, using the 'net'
structure via 'current' is not recommended for different reasons:

- Inconsistency: getting info from the reader's/writer's netns vs only
  from the opener's netns.

- current->nsproxy can be NULL in some cases, resulting in an 'Oops'
  (null-ptr-deref), e.g. when the current task is exiting, as spotted by
  syzbot [1] using acct(2).

The per-netns structure can be obtained from the table->data using
container_of(), then the 'net' one can be retrieved from the listen
socket (if available).

Fixes: c6a58ffe ("RDS: TCP: Add sysctl tunables for sndbuf/rcvbuf on rds-tcp socket")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/67769ecb.050a0220.3a8527.003f.GAE@google.com

 [1]
Suggested-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250108-net-sysctl-current-nsproxy-v1-9-5df34b2083e8@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>