netfilter: nf_tables: add packets conntrack state to debug trace info

Add the minimal relevant info needed for userspace ("nftables monitor
trace") to provide the conntrack view of the packet:

- state (new, related, established)
- direction (original, reply)
- status (e.g., if connection is subject to dnat)
- id (allows to query ctnetlink for remaining conntrack state info)

Example:
trace id a62 inet filter PRE_RAW packet: iif "enp0s3" ether [..]
  [..]
trace id a62 inet filter PRE_MANGLE conntrack: ct direction original ct state new ct id 32
trace id a62 inet filter PRE_MANGLE packet: [..]
 [..]
trace id a62 inet filter IN conntrack: ct direction original ct state new ct status dnat-done ct id 32
 [..]

In this case one can see that while NAT is active, the new connection
isn't subject to a translation.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>