io_uring/kbuf: use mmap_lock to sync with mmap

A preparation / cleanup patch simplifying the buf ring - mmap
synchronisation. Instead of relying on RCU, which is trickier, do it by
grabbing the mmap_lock when when anyone tries to publish or remove a
registered buffer to / from ->io_bl_xa.

Modifications of the xarray should always be protected by both
->uring_lock and ->mmap_lock, while lookups should hold either of them.
While a struct io_buffer_list is in the xarray, the mmap related fields
like ->flags and ->buf_pages should stay stable.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/af13bde56ee1a26bcaefaa9aad37a9ea318a590e.1732886067.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>