io_uring/net: Allow to do vectorized send

At the moment you have to use sendmsg for vectorized send.
While this works it's suboptimal as it also means you need to
allocate a struct msghdr that needs to be kept alive until a
submission happens. We can remove this limitation by just
allowing to use send directly.

Signed-off-by: Norman Maurer <norman_maurer@apple.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250729065952.26646-1-norman_maurer@apple.com


[axboe: remove -EINVAL return for SENDMSG and SEND_VECTORIZED]
[axboe: allow send_zc to set SEND_VECTORIZED too]
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>