gfs2: sanitize the gdlm_ast -> finish_xmote interface

When gdlm_ast() is called with a non-zero status code, this means that
the requested operation did not succeed and the current lock state
didn't change.  Turn that into a non-zero LM_OUT_* status code (with ret
& ~LM_OUT_ST_MASK != 0) instead of pretending that dlm returned the
current lock state.

That way, we can easily change finish_xmote() to only update
gl->gl_state when the state has actually changed.

Signed-off-by: Andreas Gruenbacher <agruenba@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Price <anprice@redhat.com>