xfs: allow block allocator to take an alignment hint

Add a BMAPI flag to provide a hint to the block allocator to align extents
according to the extszhint.

This will be useful for atomic writes to ensure that we are not being
allocated extents which are not suitable (for atomic writes).

Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: John Garry <john.g.garry@oracle.com>