net: add NUMA awareness to skb_attempt_defer_free()

Instead of sharing sd->defer_list & sd->defer_count with
many cpus, add one pair for each NUMA node.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250928084934.3266948-4-edumazet@google.com


Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>